The doctor’s words were shocking and completely unexpected. Perhaps your baby has been diagnosed with a serious medical condition; perhaps you were told your child has a fatal disease or a condition “incompatible with life.” You may feel confused and overwhelmed, with a sense of urgency to make a decision quickly…
You have time. Take time to process the information and consider all of your options.
- Request additional information about the diagnosis.
- Seek a second medical opinion.
- Learn about supportive services.
You may be advised to terminate your pregnancy. Research shows that ending pregnancy because of a fetal diagnosis can carry long-term psychological consequences and risk for complicated grieving. Many couples choose to carry their baby to term as a way to cherish whatever moments they have before and after the baby’s birth. Parents think of this as a gift of time—time to recognize, respect, and celebrate their baby’s life.